How Mediation Can Help Your My Divorce


The early stages of divorce are full of negative emotions – hurt, guilt, fear, anxiety, anger and confusion. These emotions can quickly escalate an amicable separation into a nasty court battle.

If you and your ex are both determined to win, then negotiating may be the last thing on your mind. But mediation – where you discuss issues and attempt to reach an agreement with the assistance of a… [Continue reading]

Divorcing an Attorney

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Divorce is never easy, but divorcing an attorney can seem particularly challenging.

If you’re married to a lawyer, you know that lawyers tend to be smart, analytical, and argumentative. You’re likely to assume that your lawyer spouse has an unfair advantage in your divorce because he or she understands all the rules, is friends with everyone in the courthouse, and has already formed a master plan to take advantage… [Continue reading]

What Happens to the Military’s Basic Allowance for Housing (BAH) After Divorce?


People in the military don’t always get the pay most people think they deserve.  Therefore, they often rely on perks like the Basic Allowance for Housing (BAH) to boost their overall compensation.

So when servicemembers are getting separated, they are often frantic to understand what fate awaits these perks after divorce, and what they can do to hold onto these often hard-fought benefits.

Is their BAH going… [Continue reading]

50 Percent of Marriages End in Divorce? Not Anymore.

For years now, everyone has quoted the same grim statistic about the divorce rate in America: half of all marriages end in divorce.

Surprisingly, though, that number isn’t so accurate anymore.

In the years after World War II, divorce wasn’t all that common. The divorce rate shot up in the 1970s and early 1980s, as the women’s movement and the social upheaval of the 1960s changed attitudes about… [Continue reading]

Six Signs Your Marriage Will Likely Fail

Why do people get divorced? There are probably as many reasons as there are marriages, but researchers have found that there are some things that increase the odds that a marriage will fail.

In one recent study, Emory University economists compiled data taken from polls of more than 3,000 Americans who married in 2008 or later and then divorced. They found that certain couples were more likely to… [Continue reading]

What Happens When You Find Your Ex-Spouse Concealed Marital Assets?

For some people, finding out that an ex-spouse concealed assets during a marriage can be the “ah-ha!” moment following years of suspicion and untold sleepless nights of distrust.

When final judgment was entered in your case one year ago, maybe there wasn’t enough proof to show that a family business had been intentionally undervalued, or marital assets had been spirited away to complicit family friends.

But now… [Continue reading]

Alimony in a Military Divorce

If you’re divorcing and you or your spouse is in the military, a court could award alimony under the same rules that apply to civilian divorces. But military divorces do have a few different guidelines and procedures that you should know about.

Spousal Support From Deployed

First, if you are seeking spousal support from someone who’s serving overseas on active duty, you may have to wait. The Servicemembers Civil… [Continue reading]

Alienation of Affection in South Carolina

A cheating spouse often leads to divorce. In South Carolina, a spouse may obtain a fault-based divorce based on the other spouse’s adultery. Proof of adultery may also aid in the wronged spouse’s efforts to obtain alimony or support payments.

But what about the other party to the adultery? Can you sue the “other man” or “other woman” who engaged in extra-martial relations with your spouse?… [Continue reading]

Qualified Domestic Relations Orders (QDROs)

South Carolina law calls for an “equitable apportionment” of marital property in the event of a divorce. Marital property may include a spouse’s pension if it vests during the course of the marriage—that is, the spouse meets all of the qualifications to receive the pension. In the event of divorce, a vested pension may be subject to what is known as a qualified domestic relations order (QDRO).

A… [Continue reading]

South Carolina Orders of Protection & Restraining Orders

It is a sad fact that many relationships lead to abuse or violence. South Carolina law allows victims of domestic abuse to seek what is known as an “order of protection” through the Family Court. This is a type of restraining order. But while a restraining order may be sought against anyone who is threatening or harassing you, an order of protection applies to a member of your household… [Continue reading]